Sunday, December 1, 2013

Come As You Are


 
     Last week, I did a blog about a woman who became a product of media. This week, I'm writing a blog about a man who was determined to make sure that he would never become a product. His name, friends, was Kurt Cobain.
     Most of you probably know about – or have at least heard of – Kurt Cobain, but in case you don’t, let me get you up to speed. Cobain was the guitarist, singer, and lyricist for chart-topping grunge and punk band Nirvana. Many of the bands messages included themes of toleration and individuality. With hit songs such as “Smells Like Teen Spirit” and “Heart-Shaped Box,” Nirvana was hugely successful. However, it was ultimately this success that proved too much for Cobain. On April 8, 1994, he was found dead in his Seattle home due to a self-inflicted gun shot to the head.
     Why would he kill himself amidst the mass fame and recognition that he had gained over the years? In Kurt’s eyes, it was because the world, even though the messages of individuality and acceptance we loudly preached through his music, had forgotten and left behind the true meaning of those messages. Take the classic “Come as You Are,” for instance. This is a little snippet from the beginning of the song, clearly detailing its message:

“Come as you are, as you were,
As I want you to be…”

The song preaches acceptance and staying true to who you are, but for many people, this message is shrugged off and it just becomes another part of the song. This was the last thing that Cobain wanted because it destroyed everything that he stood for.
     Allow me to further elaborate. Above all things, these reactions destroyed Cobain’s value of the self and the true meaning of things. With “Smells Like Teen Spirit” sending Cobain straight into the limelight, he couldn’t help feel that people were focused more on him than his music. And as long as he and his music were viewed like that, then in his eyes, there was no point in going on living a worthless life.
     So how does this all relate back to media? As I stated earlier, Cobain’s story is about him trying and failing to overcome the effects and influence of media. It was because of everyone’s mass attention towards what he considered fake (seeing the big picture) instead of what he really stood for (specific message) that drove him to kill himself.
     So far, in my blogs, I have described two incredibly wonderful, influential people having their lives destroyed by the influences and effects of media. How many more will we lose because of our lack of ability to see what’s real?


Unfortunately, I was unable to find a video to put on the page, but this is a link to one featuring some pictures of Kurt Cobain and some of his most inspirational quotes.




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